Hannah in Ethiopia – Part II

In July, I shared with you the story of my “niece,” Hannah, who is spending six months as a volunteer in a rural village in Ethiopia. Now four months into her amazing journey, Hannah is continuing to share her experiences via her blog, Hannah in Ethiopia. I am so proud of and inspired by Hannah, and her recent account of the elderly in her village is so moving that I had to share it.


THE HIDDEN AMOUNG US

As my departure date approaches at an ever-increasing speed, I have also begun a new phase of my work here. While I am still teaching English at the school, I have also started doing what we might call “senior outreach.” Growing old here is truly a remarkable thing—you are considered lucky if you make it past 50, and that number is decreasing as living conditions worsen. So for those who have somehow made it to 80 or even 90 years old, well, they are far and few between. Because of their rarity, you would think that the community would treasure them and show them the respect they deserve, and then some. But here in the Sidamo region of Ethiopia, they are seen as worse than nothing. In fact, to even say that they are seen is a stretch. They are too traditional, too outdated, and a waste of resources. If one is lucky enough to have family nearby who care enough to help take care of them, then they might be okay, but most are sitting alone in their dilapidated huts, day in day out, starving and freezing up until their unacknowledged deaths. To call it tragic and inhumane is completely inadequate.

Cleaning Out Your Closet

The weather is finally cooling off a little here, and while I will certainly miss Summer, I’m looking forward to Fall (not that we really get much of a change here)! In preparation I’ve started pulling out my warmer clothes, and what I’ve found is I don’t have any room for them. I’m not sure how it all fit before, but it just doesn’t look like it’s going to happen this year. So, I’ve decided to do a little cleaning, or “closet editing” as my stylist friend, Cynthia Carr Gardner, calls it.

Protecting Your Pearly Whites

As many of you may know, my daughter, Katie, is a dental student. This is such an exciting time as I get to watch her develop her skills as a dentist … the compasion and enthusiasm were already there. This past week, I went to see her in her clinic, where I got a VERY comprehensive exam.  I asked her to be a guest blogger this week and give us some information about an outreach program that she is involved with that really makes a difference!

Exercise Party

Last week I read a blog that I found interesting and thought I would share.


EXERCISE PARTY
by Monica Davis (http://monicalorandavis.tumblr.com)

I exercise a lot. I exercise as a job and I exercise for fun.  I exercise in the morning and I exercise at night, sometimes both in one day if I’m feeling sassy!

I wasn’t always a fit little lady.  Some days, I don’t consider myself a fit person at all.  I call those days my ‘fat days’ and that’s not kind to myself or to people who are actually fat.  And fuck it, I’ll say ‘fat’ because lots of fat people are owning that word because they’re taking the power back, like ‘queer’ and what not.

Building Roads, Changing Lives

I’m a big believer in volunteering. There are so many needs – in our neighborhoods, throughout the country and across the world – and whether we’re motivated by passion, profession or personal experiences, we each have things we can do, big and small, to make a difference in the lives of others and the world around us. And in addition to having an impact on others, volunteer experiences can also often teach us so much about ourselves!

As you’ve probably gathered from several of my other posts, I’m also a fan of stepping outside of your comfort zone. This week, I’m so proud to share the story of someone close to me who has done both of these things in a tremendous way.

Going the Distance

 

My friends and getting ready for a 10K run
My friends and I getting ready for a 10K run

When my children were little, my friends and I would push our strollers around the Rose Bowl stadium. I’d see people jogging and think “I could never do that.” Then my mother-in-law came to visit us – she was well into her 60s and jogged the over three mile track. This made us think maybe we could do it too. We got baby jogger type strollers and slowly worked our way to making it around the track. I eventually made a tradition of doing a 10K every 4th of July.

Over the years I have switched up my exercise, but I know I look (and more importantly feel) better when I am consistent with some type of exercise. When I am not doing it regularly, I don’t want to; and when I am, I can’t wait to go. You just need to get started…

The Oscars 2015

This past Sunday night, like millions around the world (and many of you too, I presume), I tuned into the Academy Awards. I was excited to see the all the glitz and glamour, find out who would take home Oscars, and yes … check out what they all wore.

Perhaps, as an actress, my perspective is a little different than yours – I have never been to the Oscars, but I’ve been to awards shows, and understand how intimidating and crazy the red carpet can be. That said, I think I probably watch and enjoy the Oscars just like you do. Who gave the best speech? Did the person I think deserved the award win? And who looked the best on the red carpet.